Mean People Suck

I always love it when a yoga instructor starts out a class with a homily. It’s kind of like going to church and hearing a sermon. Hopefully, the message resonates and is something you can carry with you throughout the rest of class or take with you off the yoga mat into your daily life.

One of my favorite yoga instructors had a really great lesson for us last week. She talked about how our culture has become so rude. She quoted a recent study that proved that Americans in general have become ruder to each other. Think about it. The last time you went out and ran errands, did you find the people surrounding you being rude and discourteous to each other? Were you one of the people being rude? With our busy lifestyles, daily stress, and time constraints, it’s very easy to slap on a bad attitude as we interact with the public. I know I am guilty of this very behavior. Heck, in the past I’ve gotten upset at a store clerk if she was too perky or was just trying to help me pick something out. So, why do we do this? We all know mean people suck! It certainly doesn’t serve us, and in the long run, it’s always a hell of a lot more fun to be happy and do things with a positive attitude.

At the end of class, feeling great from an amazing yoga practice, we all sat with hands at heart center and heads bowed when the instructor asked us to lose the rude and, instead, spread joy and peace to others as we went through the rest of our day. What a great message—and one that I will remember. It is a practice I need to work on and one I will be taking off the mat. Remember, mean people suck, so don’t be one of them.

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Fanning the Flames

Fresh from my recent fortune cookie epiphany, I ventured off to yoga class. The instructor started off the class with a message about boredom and how boredom really doesn’t generate from other people; it is manifested from within and is brought on by our lack of activity. Practicing yoga is a form of overcoming boredom by actively engaging our body and minds in a physical practice. She encouraged us to light a fire under the boredom in our lives, to push it aside and share our light and enthusiasm with others.

I couldn’t help but think how relevant this message was in light of the fortune cookie message I received the previous night. It read as follows: “Catch on fire with enthusiasm, and people will come for miles to watch you burn.”

It was uncanny how similar the messages were, and I started to think that someone is trying to send me a message.

I will continue to share my light about the amazing health benefits of yoga. Not only has it eliminated my back pain, it has helped me to grow spiritually and to reduce my stress level when I’m off the mat.

Try getting off the couch tonight and instead of flipping channels, slip in a few downward dogs. You’ll be amazed at how much better you’ll feel. There’s nothing better than a yoga high!

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Does Chi Mean Pain?

Does Chi Mean Pain?

Last week I was in yoga class and we were doing my favorite pose (not!)—boat pose (paripurna navasana). As I’ve mentioned numerous times, I really dislike any exercise or yoga pose that extensively calls on the abdominal muscles. My stomach is my Achilles heel. I know I need to strengthen it, but I hate doing it.

As the class was struggling (well, not everyone was struggling, but some of us were) through the various gyrations the yoga instructor was taking us through in boat pose, he said something to the effect of, “Let your chi carry you through this pose.”

That was immediately followed by a comment from a male who was a few mats over from me. “Does chi mean pain?”

For those of us who could still catch our breath, a wave of laughter trickled throughout the room, and the instructor got a big laugh out of the comment as well. I could just imagine thinking, Come on, Maria, let the pain you are carrying in your gut carry you through this excruciating pose.

I was happy to know that I wasn’t the only one in severe pain.

I was also glad to know that I wasn’t the only one in class who didn’t know what the meaning of chi was.

So, really, what is chi?

For all of you yoga fans out there who don’t know the meaning of chi, it is basically the same thing as prana, which means energy or life force. Chi is what gives power to the oxygen in the air we breathe and the vitamins and minerals in the foods we eat. It is what we live off in air, food, sunlight, water, and even in our thoughts. Every human possesses a soul, and the energy that our souls transmit to our hearts, minds, and bodies is our chi.

What is chi? It is what lets us do everyday tasks like practice yoga, tell a joke, or eat an ice cream cone, but it is also responsible for critical tasks like healing our bodies from sickness.

The important thing to remember is to respect your chi; it is the gift of life and energy and can be used for positive or negative actions. So, next time I’m in boat pose, I will remember to use my life force in a positive manner, to enjoy the challenge and benefits of the pose instead of having malice and ill thoughts about it.

Is there a yoga phrase or word that you don’t know the meaning of? Let the Daily Downward Dog help you demystify yoga. Leave a comment or a question about what you would like to know about, and we’ll write about it here on the Daily Downward Dog.

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Does Chi Mean Pain?

What’s Om Got To Do With It?

I remember when I first started going to yoga class. At the end of class, the teacher would say some funky things in a language I didn’t know and then bow to us while saying, Namaste.” The entire class would say it back to her, except for me. I wasn’t going to say something if I didn’t know what it meant. I was hesitant to ask the instructor what the meaning was, and, to be honest, I was a little freaked out that it was part of a weird religion that I just really didn’t want to know about. Instead I closed my eyes and waited until I heard people getting up off their mats to avoid the namaste bow routine with the instructor. One day when I opened my eyes, I caught the instructor looking at me kind of funny, and I figured I’d better figure out what all this stuff meant.

To be honest, I’m still not 100 percent clear on all the teachings of yoga, but that’s what makes it fun—having so much more to learn!

Oftentimes I wonder what yoga beginners think when they walk into yoga class for the first time. Are they confused by the Sanskrit names and the teachings of yoga? Are they just a little bit freaked out like I was? I needed the yoga demystified guide and wasn’t quite sure where to find it.

You can imagine how I felt the first time I went into a class and the instructor asked us to participate in chanting om. There was no explanation given of what this meant or why we were doing it. Everyone just took a big breath and began chanting their hearts out. That was another experience that caught me by surprise, and, like namaste, it took me a while to get on the om bandwagon.

Now I love to chant om, and the louder and longer I can do it, the better!

So, what’s om got to do with it?

Well, it’s not so easy to explain. It’s a very simple sound to chant, but explaining it is a bit more complex.

The sound is the oldest, most sacred and powerful sound in the practice of yoga, Buddhism, and Hinduism. Om can also be spelled aum, and, when chanted properly, it is done in three syllables: a, u, and m or aaaaauuuuummmmm.

Typically chanted three times at the beginning and end of a yoga class, the mantra of om represents the union of mind, body, and spirit and the whole universe compressed together into one single sound.

What?

I still don’t get it, and, to be honest, I’m having a hard time describing it, so in order to give om its due, I finally found (after an exhaustive search) this really amazing definition from Cyndi Lee over at Yoga Journal:

Om is a mantra, or vibration, that is traditionally chanted at the beginning and end of yoga sessions. It is said to be the sound of the universe. What does that mean?

Somehow the ancient yogis knew what scientists today are telling us—that the entire universe is moving. Nothing is ever solid or still. Everything that exists pulsates, creating a rhythmic vibration that the ancient yogis acknowledged with the sound of om. We may not always be aware of this sound in our daily lives, but we can hear it in the rustling of the autumn leaves, the waves on the shore, the inside of a seashell.

Chanting om allows us to recognize our experience as a reflection of how the whole universe moves—the setting sun, the rising moon, the ebb and flow of the tides, the beating of our hearts. As we chant om, it takes us for a ride on this universal movement, through our breath, our awareness, and our physical energy, and we begin to sense a bigger connection that is both uplifting and soothing.”

Thanks, Cyndi, for putting it into words that yoga beginners can like me can understand. Chanting om will no longer mystify me.

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Celebrity Yoga

I recently posted some blogs that included funny quotes about yoga from celebrities. Here’s one that got a lot of hits from Chris Rock: “Why do people do yoga? To clear their minds? I embrace the clutter in my head.” —Chris Rock

And Ellen DeGeneres provided us with some insight on her yoga practice: “I was in yoga the other day. I was in full lotus position. My chakras were all aligned. My mind is cleared of all clatter, and I’m looking out of my third eye and everything that I’m supposed to be doing. It’s amazing what comes up when you sit in that silence. ‘Mama keeps whites bright like the sunlight; Mama’s got the magic of Clorox Two.’” —Ellen DeGeneres

Since everyone seemed to enjoy these quotes, I thought it would be interesting to share a few more celebrity quotes, but this time from a more serious angle about how yoga has helped them strengthen their bodies, focus, cleanse, and calm their minds.

“Yoga calms me down. It’s a therapy session, a workout, and meditation all at the same time!” —Jennifer Aniston

“Ashtanga yoga has completely changed me. I try to do it every day, and the effect is amazing. It’s not just during the hours that I’m practicing. It’s about how it filters through into the rest of my life. It makes all the other bullshit dissipate. Who I am has emerged, and everything else has gone by the wayside.” —Gwyneth Paltrow

“The yoga mat is a good place to turn when talk therapy and antidepressants aren’t enough.” —Amy Weintraub

Jennifer and Gwyneth, I feel the exact same way about yoga. It has provided me with a great workout routine, it reduces my stress level, makes all the bullshit dissipate (love that, Gwyneth), and although I’ve never seen a psychiatrist or taken antidepressants, yoga is definitely my drug of choice for mood-lifting therapy.

I’ll keep searching for more quotes and inspiration from celebrity yogis, and I still need to find some quotes from one of my favorite yogi celebrities, the tantra-tastic Sting. I think I may have to dedicate a whole blog or several to Sting. Can you imagine what it is like to do partner yoga with Sting (Trudie, you are one lucky lady!)?

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